Every school day begins with possibilities and pressures.
Whether it’s a difficult conversation with a staff member, a complex timetable to revise, or a resource shortfall demanding swift decisions, school leadership often means starting the day with something unpalatable. But as Mark Twain’s famous quote reminds us:
“If it’s your job to eat a frog, it’s best to do it first thing in the morning. And if it’s your job to eat two frogs, it’s best to eat the biggest one first.” Mark Twain
In school leadership, the “frog” represents the task we least want to face but most need to.
Why It Matters
When leading a school, procrastinating on hard tasks doesn’t just delay decisions, it compounds stress and slows momentum. Leaders who tackle their most significant challenges early set a tone of decisiveness for the day and model courage for their teams.
Choosing to “eat the biggest frog first” is about:
- Facing uncomfortable truths early before they grow bigger.
- Making high-impact decisions rather than being distracted by the noise of low-value activity.
- Leading with focus rather than being led by reaction.
How to Apply the ‘Frog First’ Principle
- Identify your frogs the night before.
Ask: What am I avoiding? What matters most? - Rank them by impact and complexity.
The biggest frog isn’t always the most urgent but it is the most important. - Protect your morning energy.
Schedule your hardest task first, before the demands of the day take over. - Act decisively, then move forward.
Avoid perfection paralysis. Progress is better than polish.
A Culture of Courage Starts at the Top
When leaders consistently face their toughest tasks with clarity and composure, they send a powerful message: We do hard things here, and we do them with purpose. This mindset ripples across staff rooms, student interactions, and the very fabric of a school’s culture.
Leadership isn’t about having easy days, it’s about doing the hard things that matter, even when no one is watching.
So tomorrow morning, when the frogs are waiting, start with the biggest one.
Closing Reflection:
What’s your “frog” today and what would change if you faced it head-on before 9am?
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